Lola & Frankie’s Story

Lola & Frankie’s Story

Over the course of a month, MyLiferaft supports several campaigns through social media and our blog.  As a result, we often come across stories that make us laugh, make us cry and sometimes, just make us stop and think.  However, it is very rare to come across a story that does all three, so we wanted to share with you this inspiring story.

Lola has been fundraising for the National Autistic Society for the last 5 years as her uncle Frankie was diagnosed with Autism.  With the help of ‘Team Lola’ led by her mum Holly, she has organised various events from baking, dressing up & wacky hair days.  Lola has raised over £500 during this time which is amazing, but what is even more amazing is that Lola is 11 years old, which means she started fund raising when she was just 6!

Frankie’s Story

Frankie is 20 and was diagnosed with autism when he was 3 years old.  He attended Greenfields School in Merthyr Tydfil whose motto is ‘Opening Doors to the Future’ and will be transitioning at the end of the Summer term – a difficult time for all families where a child has additional needs.  When Frankie was diagnosed, it was recognised that his autism was very severe, so from an early age it defined who he was and what he was able to do.  As a result, his family had to adapt very early on and they continue to adapt as Frankie’s needs as an adult change.

 

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Despite all of this, Frankie loves being outside in the fresh air, so his family have put together different activities that ensure Frankie gets out as much as possible.  His favourite is his weekend respite trips to a local farm where he gets fully immersed in all the farming activities, including the mucking out!  The wider family are involved in Frankie’s care to ensure that he is active and safe and that everyone gets a ‘time out’ – something that is incredibly important for everyone in Frankie’s circle of care and we’re sure will strike a chord for others who are in a similar position.

Frankie’s update – since we last spoke to Team Lola, Frankie has transitioned and settled in at a house run by the National Autistic Society in Neath. He attends midweek and travels via taxi.  He still enjoys his outdoor activities and is often hiking, swimming, and walking.  He also helps out at the house with various jobs such as cutting the grass and other outdoor tasks!

Lola’s Story

The first time that Lola decided to raise money for charity was at the hairdressers aged just 6 – when most little girls are longing for Rapunzel type hair, Lola decided to cut off 7 inches and donate it to the Little Princess Trust!  The Trust make wigs for children with cancer out of donated real hair.  She raised £122 and is considering doing it again later this year now that her hair has grown back!

Lola was aware that Frankie had autism from around 5 years of age and that he was different, however she has always been totally at ease with him and appreciates that he is ‘different not less’.  She started baking to raise awareness and money, which then led on to Wacky Hair days that have been supported by Lola’s school!  And in answer to the obvious question – YES – Lola’s hair remained held up by the balloons all day at school!

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What Can We Do

When we asked Holly and Lola what more could be done to support individuals like Frankie and their families, they were very clear:

  • More awareness and support need to be given to families where a young adult is going through transition
  • More opportunities need to be given to adults with autism as they have so much to offer
  • Learn how to communicate with people who have autism and treat them as individuals as they go about their daily lives; please don’t stare at people who are different to you
  • We should be teaching children at primary and secondary schools about people with additional needs and that they are ‘different not less’ as this will raise awareness at an early age and reduce the amount of bullying that takes place

MyLiferaft Supporting Autism

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MyLiferaft Resources

At MyLiferaft, we aim to give you everything you need in once place and this includes where to go for advice, information and support.  Our extensive list of resources has a specific section for those with autism with links through to organisations such as the National Autistic Society, Child Autism UK and Autism Independent UK.  There is also a full list of resources on a wide range of topics including Bullying, Going Back to School, Bereavement, Dementia, Epilepsy, Mental Health, Benefit information and various NHS information websites.

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